Wednesday, October 17, 2007
My Sunshine(s)
What a day! I have spent half my day trying to figure out how to turn on and off "cookies" on my computer and the other half being chased by 2 little monsters on their bikes. My older son Danny decided to use the gasoline funnel for our lawn mower to cover his brother in soaking wet leaves and dirt. By the time I figured out what he was doing, Zachy was covered in wet leaves and his head smelled like a gas station. I had to laugh though, he did look like the tin man with it on his head. After that game, the boys decided to play monsters with some severed heads... it's halloween time and my husband is a decorating fanatic. No wonder they have been having nightmares?! Anyways, the best part of the day actually came at 10:30 pm... I had just come home from playing bunco with a neighborhood group, and found Zachy sound asleep and Dan just laying there awake waiting for me. I laid down next to him and he started singing a song to me- "you are my sunshine". I used to sing that song to the boys when they were infants to help them fall asleep. Now, five years later, out of the blue, Danny starts singing to me: "You are my sunshine, I love my sunshine, when I go walking down the sidewalk, with you by me, you are my sunshine...". Isn't is funny, we are working so hard on homework that he is just not understanding, but a song from five years ago- that I have not sang in five years- he somehow remembers, and remembers well! I will never understand how their little brains work? As I have been told, when you lack at one thing, you are terrific at another. My son Zachy is amazing, it is so hard to understand his speech most of the time, and lately he will repeat the same word four or five times, but he can put together a 500 piece puzzle and the other day he asked me if I knew what 7+8 equals... before I could answer he blurted out 15! He then continued to show me ho well he could add. He just turned four. When you lack at one thing...
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Jen,
I am sitting here in tears because I have been wanting to write a book about how difficult it is raising a "less than normal child". I get so frustrated trying to explain to everyone that Diana is not a typical child that people think I am just an overprotective mom. Noone understands that she is very sensitive and scared to death of anything new (ie Dentist, Doctors, school field trips etc.)She has never been diagnosed as anything but developmentally delayed...but that just makes it harder. I don't have an excuse to why she is the way she is, but that is perfectly fine with me. We love her for her and she is my "Sunshine". I am so happy for you and your boys sound very mischievious, as boys should be!
Thank you so much for doing this, I will definately be a regular reader on here! Noone understands better than another mom going through the same frustrations.
Talk to you soon!
Karin
I am so glad you wrote in! I feel exactly the same. Our children might not be the worst off, but it gets hard to explain all the time when they do something "different" or wondering everyday how they are fitting in at school, are they being made fun of? Will they be? How hard is it going to be in the future? We are blessed to have these children because they are some of the most loveable in the world, but you will always have those days where you sit and cry, or want to just yell "WHY ME?". I can only hope that this will help some mom out there who has no one who understands. Also, if someone has any advise on potty training a child with sensory problems... please let me know. Thanks Karin- your friend-Jenni
Jen,
We just got Diana and Nate potty trained this summer, We were sick of fighting it with Diana any longer, we have been training for almost 2 years, finally I just let her go naked...it took 2 days to finally get her to "go" on the potty, but she did it. We had to wait out her stubbornness and her being scared. She had 1 accident on the floor but other than that she did it and has continued to go on the potty. She still wears pull-ups at night, I am not that courageous yet. Nate got it in the first week. We did the sitting down first, then he wanted to stand so we had to lean im all the way over the potty to "aim" correctly. Joey we put the potty in front of the T.V. and put his potty video on "Joshua" was the name of the boy in the video and when Joshua went in the potty by the end of the song, Joey did too.
That is what helped me. I think it is harder on us than them. I carried around a bottle of Resolve and a rag everywhere the kids went for about a week.
Take Care,
Karin
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